How to Overcome Depression and Anxiety

How to Overcome Depression and Anxiety

Mental health is one of the common problems which people are facing nowadays and depression is one of them.

How to Overcome Depression and Anxiety
Depression is a mental state it can be cured 



How to Overcome Depression and Anxiety I will try to give simple solutions to these problems

Depression is Suppression - you suffer from depression because you suppress your emotions and don't allow to pass them through you

Meditation - there are different types of meditation which one can practice to get rid of depression, meditation is basically focussing on your breathing. Mindfulness meditation is the one in which you focus on total body awareness, knowing thyself  

Spend time in Nature - Nature heals everything, spend some time in nature go out for a walk in the garden barefoot. you will be relaxed and feel great

Listen to Music - Music plays an important role in one's life especially if someone is feeling down it helps us to elevate our mood and raise frequency and vibrations. listen to music which you love.

Watching Funny Videos - Fun is an important part of our life without fun life is nothing, watch funny videos on Youtube or spend time with grandparents and with a kid who is below the age of 10. you will feeling amazing.

Become Social - in the beginning, you won't be comfortable being social and that's ok but you need to be in talking to the people it may be stranger, family member or a loved one because when you talk to someone you share what you carry which in turn can make you depressed.

Avoid Staying Alone - This is similar to the above but even if you don't have any person with whom you can talk try to go out for shopping or public places which might be of interests to you. this is important because staying alone will lead you to become more depressed.

Make Yourself Busy - When you have a busy schedule doing the work you love, you don't do overthinking and getting involved in the stuff which doesn't bother you much. so keep yourself busy throughout the day and stay away from negativity.

Avoid Negativity - We are often surrounded by the people which always keeps us in negative mode. you can't do this, this is not of your type, etc.
you are the sum of the people to whom you surround yourself with
so stay away from such people and in that way, you can get rid of depression.

Eat the right food - You are what you Eat
Eating the right food plays a very important role when you suffer from depression you are actually lacking chemicals in brains such as Dopamine and Serotonin, so in order to get rid of the condition, you need to include foods which are rich in Serotonin-like Banana, Nuts, Eggs, Spinach, etc.

Exercise Every day - Study shows that exercising every day helps you to release endorphins and it reduces depression of about 70%. your mood wich change and you will feel good when you exercise at least 30 minutes per day do your favorite activity like jogging, cycling, running, etc. you can also get involved in sports.

Help Someone Needy - When you help someone you will feel happy automatically, Happiness comes from sharing, so next time when you feeling down or sad, help someone who is seeking help and in that way you are helping yourself too.

Reading Books - When you feel alone or down and don't have someone to spend time with, books can be one of your best friends, it improves brain health and you can always learn something from them, reading is a very powerful tool for personal development and sharpening your skills.

Believe in Yourself - When you Believe in yourself you are halfway done - yes we need to believe in ourselves and must have a never to give up attitude. even if things are not in our favor just trust the process and universe will help you to reach your goal.

Start Counselling - If you are not comfortable sharing with your family or friends you can do the same with the stranger, by seeking a counselor they will help you to get rid of unwanted thoughts and be positive in life.

Don't Go For Drugs - When you go for drugs you are actually taking a chemical into your body which will definitely cause you harm, anti-depressant has a lot of side effects, so stay away from drugs. remember drugs cannot remove depression but you yourself have the power to overcome it.

Watch Your thoughts Journal Them - Thoughts are very important, thoughts become things. so whenever some negative thought comes to your mind just journal them all and throw away the paper you will automatically feel good

Use Positive Affirmations - Affirmation is very helpful, affirmation is the statement which you speak into the present tense, words have power when you speak something repeatedly your brain will believe what you speak and it will be manifested in your life.

Be Grateful for What You Have - Gratitude plays a very important role in one's life, if someone is grateful for what he has, he will attract more into his life. so be grateful for what you have and you will be happy.

Learn Something New - When you get involved in learning something new, you tend to forget the state in which your life is, so learn something new it can be a new language, driving a car, traveling to an unknown place, making new friends, etc.

Limit the Use of Social Media - When someone posts something on social media we generally feel negative, felling such as envy, jealousy, hatred comes because we see other more successful, happy and prosperous, we compare ourselves with others. which will lead to more depression.

Monitor Your Self-Talk - When you are alone what self talk you have with yourself, I am not enough, all is not well, what will happen to me? these are all negative self-talk. so monitor them and try to make them positive by replacing them with positive affirmations in that way you can get rid of depression.



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What it takes to be Successful?

What it takes to be successful? 


Yesterday I watched the video on youtube, where the speaker told that everyone wants to be successful but one needs to know whether he is qualified to be successful, what qualities one must have?

What it takes to be Successful?
What it takes to be Successful 


I understood that what it takes to be successful, everyone talks supports once the success is achieved but no one supports when we are on the journey

When you want to be successful one must have a never to give up mentality, because when you have this somehow universe supports you in any possible way

Investing in yourself is also one of the best things to do when you feel that you are not getting what you deserve.

when you become your greatest version success will automatically follow you

learning something new every day also plays a key role, most of the youngsters spend half a day on social media and hardly care about what is going on in their lives.

Rome was not built in a day 

What it takes to be successful? you need to be consistent, have patience, believe in yourself and do not ever give up in your life even though the circumstances are not in your favor

there are mainly three things which one needs to have in order to be successful, one needs to think BIG here big is same as that discussed in the book "the magic of thinking big" by David Schwartz
 



Here I am referring BIG as Books, Individuals, and Goals when you have these things which you want to become there is nothing who can stop you from being successful.

These are the 3 key principles for success.

Books - Reading books which help us to become a better version of ourselves
Individuals - Surround yourself with successful people, people who inspire you
Goals - Set goals and try to achieve them


Few people who I recommend following them on any social media are as follows

1. Infinite waters (Ralph Smart)
2. Gary Vaynerchuk
3. Tony Robbins
4. Evan Carmichael
5. Robin Sharma
6. Brian Tracy
7. Eric Thomas
8. Grant Cardone
9. Mel Robbins
10. Tom Bilyeu
11. Oprah Winfrey
12. Bill Gates
13. Warren Buffett

and the list goes on and on. these are some of the people I follow and learn something from them to implement into our daily lives.



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Benefits of Drinking water first thing in the morning on an empty stomach

Benefits of Drinking water first thing in the morning


When you drink water first thing in the morning on an empty stomach functioning of your internal system such as heart, kidney, liver, lungs, etc. improves

Benefits of Drinking water first thing in the morning on an empty stomach
Drinking Water on an Empty Stomach first thing in the morning


Benefits of Drinking water first thing in the morning on an empty stomach Water needs to be taken before sunrise. this will improve the internal organs of the body such as Heart, Kidney, Lungs, Liver, Brain, etc.

without doing anything you need to drink at least 125 ml water on an empty stomach, at first you will not feel good because you are not used to the process do not worry, but continue this task and increase the amount of water once you find it comfortable.


It is said that the stomach is the other brain so when you have an upset stomach or your digestive system is not proper, your brain will not work to the optimum level so if you want to have great memory power you need to drink water on an empty stomach the first thing in the morning.

Benefits of Drinking water first thing in the morning on an empty stomach
Benefits of drinking water on an empty stomach



  • This also helps you to lose weight because when your internal system is properly functioning excess food and fat does not accumulate in the body

  • This is the ancient Japanese water technique when you see those people they have thinner waist and sharper brain because they use this technique every day

  • The secret lies in the saliva which is taken inside the body it's priceless for our health

  • you will also remain happy throughout the day because when your stomach is clear in the morning itself your day will be good

  • Your body functioning will be improved you will feel hungry at the right time, and your body will absorb all the nutrients as your colon becomes clear

  • you will be having glowing skin and it also increases the production of new blood and muscle cells

  • this also removes toxins from your blood

  • people having a heart problem such as blood pressure can easily be taken care of

  • if you observe the shape of the intestine and that of the brain is the same.

  • this means that if your intestine is clear your brain is also clear

  • This also improves the stamina of your body

I myself is doing this and I feel amazing health-wise, in the beginning, this won't feel so good but it's ok to try to stick with this habit and eventually increase the amount of water intake from 125ml to 250 ml.


in addition to the above, It is beneficial in Headache, body ache, heart system, arthritis, fast heart beat, epilepsy, excess fatness, bronchitis asthma, TB, meningitis, kidney and urine diseases, vomiting, gastritis, diarrhea, piles, diabetes, constipation, all eye diseases, womb, cancer and menstrual disorders, ear nose and throat diseases.


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Are you eating to live or die?

Are you eating to live or die?


A lot of people are eating processed foods, junk food which can lead to several health problems

A few years ago I was also having the same habits, but I have changed myself and now I am complete vegan I prefer to eat a healthy plant-based diet. it is said that you are what you eat

Some of the benefits of eating a plant-based diet

Are you eating to live or die?
Plant Based Diet


Organic foods, they help us to become our greatest version. also, we don't have to take animal-based products as it produces negativity in our body

plant based diet consists of god made food which grows up from the mother earth, also they are all alkaline in nature and when we consume alkaline foods our body automatically gets healed

Health is Wealth, a lot of people take this for granted, but if you don't take care of your body it will not take care of you

Your body is like your home place where you are staying so you need to keep it clean, provide proper nutrition through diet, exercise, take rest and in that way you become your greatest version living well and healthy

Vegetables and Fruits one must include every day they are full of antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals. ask yourself  Are you eating to live or die?


Are you eating to live or die?
How to Live Healthily

One must focus on a balanced diet which includes the proper amount of Carbohydrates, Protein, and fats.

Drinking 8 to 10 glasses of water is mandatory because our body is 70% water.

Skipping Breakfast is also very bad for our health because the body needs nutrition after 8 to 10 hours of sleep and mostly all biological changes in our body occurs when we sleep

The sleep of 6 to 8 hours is mandatory for our health, that too sound sleep 


Are you eating to live or die?
Good Quality Sound Sleep


 Avoid the use of Moblie phones during the night 1 hour before sleep and remember the blue light of the mobile phone is very dangerous for eyesight as well as sleep deprivation

For you to get good night sleep following are the requirements

1. Cave-like Darkness/ Minimum light
2. Dinner 2 hours before sleep
3. No Mobile Phone
4. Focus on breathing you will sleep automatically and with good quality too
5. Forget worries about tomorrow or the past.

Find methods to become stress-free such as Meditation, Walk-in Nature, Excercise, Yoga, Watching comedy videos, etc.

Research says 95% of diseases are due to stress so one must eliminate stress in their day to day life.

Fun is an important part of your life,
if you are not having fun it means you are not living life, so make fun part of your life.

Spend time with family, and those who are elder and with kids this will help you to be happy.


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What is Reiki Energy Healing

What is Reiki Energy Healing


Reiki is the life force energy. everything in this universe is energy, whenever there is some disease in the body because there is an imbalance in our energy system.

Apart from healing reiki is having a variety of different other benefits, this is the only single technique from which you can get self-healed.

let us talk about its discovery, this was discovered by Dr Mikao Usui, this is ancient  Japanese healing technique, this healing is given by just placing hands on the affected areas,

What is Reiki Energy Healing
this way the healing is given to the patient


we are having 7 energy centres in our body they are called chakras. when the energy is freely flowing in the body, there cannot be any disease in our body.

What is Reiki Energy Healing
Location of Different Energy Centres


So Reiki Energy Healing is given to balance energy in all chakras and hence there will be no diseases left.

1. Crown Chakra or Sahasrara Chakra - located at the top of the head.
colour for activation - purple
Seed mantra - OM

2. Ajna Chakra or Third Eye Chakra - Located between the eyebrows
Colour for Activation - Indigo
Seed Mantra - Kshyam

3. Throat Chakra or Vishuddha Chakra - Located at the throat region
Colour for Activation - Light Blue
Seed Mantra - Ham

4. Heart Chakra or Anahata Chakra - Located at the middle of the chest
Colour for Activation-Green
Seed Mantra - Yam

5. Solar Plexus Chakra or Manipura Chakra - Located at the navel region
Colour for Activation - Yellow
Seed mantra - Ram

6. Sacral Chakra or swadhishtan Chakra - Located 4 fingers below the navel
Colour for Activation - Orange
Seed Mantra - Vam

7. Root Chakra or Muladhara Chakra - Located at the base of the spine
Colour for Activation - Red
Seed Mantra - Lam


Each chakra is responsible for several bodily functions.

What is Reiki Energy Healing
Different Chakras Responsible for Different Functions

for Reiki to work there are 5 principles to be followed

just for today

I will not be angry
I will not worry
I will do my work honestly
I will be grateful for my blessings
I will be kind to every living thing

There also must be prayer where all divine beings are called upon

we need to sit in ghaso mudra and do the following prayer
I thank reiki for being here
I (your full name) thank reiki for being here
I thank Dr Mikao Usui, Dr Hayashi, madam Takata, reiki angels, reiki archangels, and reiki grandmaster (your master name) for being here
I am about to start Reiki healing session with reiki grandmaster (your master name) please provide divine healing, divine guidance and divine protection.
thank you.


If you are having diseases around any of the chakras you can get rid of it by just balancing the energy of the chakras

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What is Elevated Living

What is Elevated Living

A lot of millionaires we know today didn’t have an easy start. They started their journeys because they wanted to get something, they wanted to get money or fame. However, along the way, they realized that it’s not about the status or the money or the fame. They realized that success is about having an impact and making a positive change.

“The definition of “billionaire” should really be re-defined to “people who’ve made and continue making an impact on billions”. By impacting billions of people, by default, you become a billionaire.

What is Elevated Living
Billionaires of the world


Elevated living is, therefore, a state of operation. It is about the way you operate with everything.

Elevated living is about how you can renunciation to serve a bigger cause than yourself. Whether it’s your money, time, energy, real renunciation is about how you can re-invest these things to do something more.

By doing this, by serving something bigger than ourselves, we gain elevated consciousness, and, in the end, it goes back to us too.


The 4 areas we need to have elevated living:

1. Intention Intention is the first seed we plant before any activity. It is the beginning.

Your intention must be elevated because by focussing on service, you’ll always have your “big break”. Turn your “I”s into “Them”.

But if your intention is focussed on society’s definition of success (money, fame, awards, etc.), you’ll never be satisfied. You’ll feel broken. And even if you do achieve this definition of success, you won’t feel satisfied.

It doesn’t matter how much or how little you have to offer, if your intention in the first place is to serve, you’ll give all of yourself.

2. Awareness Awareness is about knowing which environments devolve and which evolve your consciousness.

This is important because in order for your seed (intention) to really grow, you need to put it in an environment with enough sunlight, water, oxygen and nutrients. If the environment is too acidic or toxic, it’ll just die. “A negative mind will never lead to a positive life”.

To be aware is to be aware of your habits. What do you spend time on? Which spaces do you spend time in? (Spaces carry energy.) Who do you spend time with? (The memories you make with people will last a long time.)

3. Attention 70-80% of successful people have a mindful practice which they do consistently. We still live in our minds. By practicing mindfulness, we create a filtration system for our mind and consciousness. Not only are we calming and cleansing our minds, but we are also purifying and restoring balance.

What is Elevated Living
Practicing Mindfulness Meditation


Some benefits of meditation (an excellent example of a mindful practice):
increased capacity for empathy and compassion; decreased capacity for envy and competition
enhanced REM sleep
boost melatonin levels (happiness levels rise)
deeper self-awareness
better focus
less tendency to burn out
less tendency to stress out

Try to meditate 10-20 minutes per day. Slowly build it up.
 4. Action

Mahatma Gandhi once said “Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony”.

We all need internal and external success. By having both, we can build a meaningful life for ourselves and have the most impact on others.

If we only have external success (money, fame, power, etc.) and this becomes volatile, then internally, our state becomes volatile too. But if we are internally satisfied and successful, then it will project outwards.




My main takeaway(s):

You really have to be aware of who you are, what you stand for and apply it to life (whether personal or professional) in order for you to know how to serve a higher purpose. And this must be reiterated, this must be a constant self-reminder.

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What is Emotional Intelligence


What is Emotional Intelligence

Why is learning and having emotional intelligence (EQ) important?

What is Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Intelligence Overview


The world has always connected, continues to connect and will forever connect through people-to-people interaction, not business-to-business communication. “With places and projects, I have a strategy. When it comes to people, I go with my heart”.

Especially with the recent rise in technology, the most needed skill of the hour and of the future to achieve success, whether in personal or professional life is EQ. You get to connect with people offline and online through EQ. “Whether offline or online, people think in exactly the same way. Online, however, people’s habits are simply amplified and magnified”.

With EQ, one has the ability to:

     connect with people
     understand one’s own and another’s emotions in the context of the current surrounding and environment
     understand what someone else is going through physical and visual cues without them even having to say it
     go with one’s own heart
     negotiate, persuade, motivate, inspire
     build a deep relationship with others

“The healthiest, wealthiest and wisest people on earth quote that EQ is a key matrix of growing success” because ultimately, you are dealing with people. You need to feel them. “We are more than numbers and figures.”



How do I improve my EQ?

First, a must-do exercise for yourself.

Take note that we are a bit of both but we naturally prefer to be more of one over the other. Also take note that for each question, NEITHER are weaknesses; they are both STRENGTHS. Now, ask yourself…


Question 1) Am I a more outgoing person or am I a more reserved person? (Choose only 1)

  1. A more outgoing person will prefer:                                 

     directing a conversation
getting people to do things


  1. A more reserved person will rather:

be part of the conversation


Question 2) Am I a more task-oriented person or am I a more people-oriented person? (Choose only 1)

  1. A more task-oriented person will think:

     what comes next?
     about the order of things to do
     what do I need to get done today?

 A more task-oriented person is a natural planner


  1. A more people-oriented person will think:

     are people enjoying their time?
     how are others feeling?
     who am I meeting today?

A more people-oriented person is a natural motivator.
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DISC profiling

What is Emotional Intelligence
DISC profile an Overview


I am a more task-oriented person
I am a more outgoing person

D: more outgoing and more task-oriented

The Ds prefer to:
     direct
     do
     plan
     organize
     “ready, fire, aim!”
     be motivated by action
     be orientated by results
see the bigger picture


I am a more outgoing person
I am a more people-oriented person

I: more outgoing and more people-oriented

The Is prefer to:
     inspire
     innovate
     motivate
     intellectualize
     discuss
     “ready, talk!”
     have space to create
provide insights


I am a more reserved person
I am a more task-oriented person

C: more reserved and task-oriented

The Cs prefer to:
     be calculative
     be cautious
     be detailed
     have to focus
     have steps
have a process

I am a more reserved person
I am a more people-oriented person

S: more reserved and more people-oriented

The Ss prefer to:
●     be soft
●     be structured
●     emphatise
●     be the middle-man / mediators
●     “ready, hug!”
·         bring people into the situation


Understanding others’ DISC profiles

How we should treat others is not by how we like to be treated but rather how they need to be treated. Nobody is good or bad, we see things through different lenses, through different perspectives. All of us are just wired emotionally in different ways.

An example: Six blind men were at the backstage of a circus. As they were feeling their way around, all of them touched an elephant. Turn by turn, they said “It’s more like a tree trunk”, “It’s more like a rope”, “It’s more like a palm leaf”, “It’s more like a bending tree trunk”, “It’s more like a wall”. All were right. They just had different perspectives.

When people interact with us, they are showing you:
     their DISC profile
     their needs, dreams, and worries
Both parties, therefore, need to listen, see and read between the lines.

There are natural collaborators between some profiles but it’s all about work! To communicate effectively and deeply, we need to speak to others not in the language we understand but in the language that they understand. It’s as if traveling to a foreign country: in order for the locals to understand and connect with you, you need to speak in their native tongue. This will enable you to make the most impact.

Interacting with the Ds

Provide them:
     the direction in which things are going
the bigger picture / how things fit into the bigger picture


Interacting with the Is

Provide them:
time and space to create

Interacting with the Ss

Provide them:
     details
with information on the steps, of the process

Interacting with the Cs

Provide them:

with information on how people are going to benefit, participate, be affected by the situation


The challenge for today: try to notice any be aware of others’ DISC profiles and try to communicate with them in their own language.

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