What it takes to be Successful?

What it takes to be successful? 

Yesterday I watched the video on youtube, where the speaker told that everyone wants to be successful but one needs to know whether he is qualified to be successful, what qualities one must have?

What it takes to be Successful 

I understood that what it takes to be successful, everyone talks supports once the success is achieved but no one supports when we are on the journey

When you want to be successful one must have a never to give up mentality, because when you have this somehow universe supports you in any possible way

Investing in yourself is also one of the best things to do when you feel that you are not getting what you deserve.

when you become your greatest version success will automatically follow you

learning something new every day also plays a key role, most of the youngsters spend half a day on social media and hardly care about what is going on in their lives.

Rome was not built in a day 

What it takes to be successful? you need to be consistent, have patience, believe in yourself and do not ever give up in your life even though the circumstances are not in your favor

there are mainly three things which one needs to have in order to be successful, one needs to think BIG here big is same as that discussed in the book "the magic of thinking big" by David Schwartz
 



Here I am referring BIG as Books, Individuals, and Goals when you have these things which you want to become there is nothing who can stop you from being successful.

These are the 3 key principles for success.

Books - Reading books which help us to become a better version of ourselves
Individuals - Surround yourself with successful people, people who inspire you
Goals - Set goals and try to achieve them

Few people who I recommend following them on any social media are as follows

1. Infinite waters (Ralph Smart)
2. Gary Vaynerchuk
3. Tony Robbins
4. Evan Carmichael
5. Robin Sharma
6. Brian Tracy
7. Eric Thomas
8. Grant Cardone
9. Mel Robbins
10. Tom Bilyeu
11. Oprah Winfrey
12. Bill Gates
13. Warren Buffett

and the list goes on and on. these are some of the people I follow and learn something from them to implement into our daily lives.



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What is Elevated Living

What is Elevated Living

A lot of millionaires we know today didn’t have an easy start. They started their journeys because they wanted to get something, they wanted to get money or fame. However, along the way, they realized that it’s not about the status or the money or the fame. They realized that success is about having an impact and making a positive change.

“The definition of “billionaire” should really be re-defined to “people who’ve made and continue making an impact on billions”. By impacting billions of people, by default, you become a billionaire.

Billionaires of the world

Elevated living is, therefore, a state of operation. It is about the way you operate with everything.

Elevated living is about how you can renunciation to serve a bigger cause than yourself. Whether it’s your money, time, energy, real renunciation is about how you can re-invest these things to do something more.

By doing this, by serving something bigger than ourselves, we gain elevated consciousness, and, in the end, it goes back to us too.

The 4 areas we need to have elevated living:

1. Intention Intention is the first seed we plant before any activity. It is the beginning.

Your intention must be elevated because by focussing on service, you’ll always have your “big break”. Turn your “I”s into “Them”.

But if your intention is focussed on society’s definition of success (money, fame, awards, etc.), you’ll never be satisfied. You’ll feel broken. And even if you do achieve this definition of success, you won’t feel satisfied.

It doesn’t matter how much or how little you have to offer, if your intention in the first place is to serve, you’ll give all of yourself.

2. Awareness Awareness is about knowing which environments devolve and which evolve your consciousness.

This is important because in order for your seed (intention) to really grow, you need to put it in an environment with enough sunlight, water, oxygen and nutrients. If the environment is too acidic or toxic, it’ll just die. “A negative mind will never lead to a positive life”.

To be aware is to be aware of your habits. What do you spend time on? Which spaces do you spend time in? (Spaces carry energy.) Who do you spend time with? (The memories you make with people will last a long time.)

3. Attention 70-80% of successful people have a mindful practice which they do consistently. We still live in our minds. By practicing mindfulness, we create a filtration system for our mind and consciousness. Not only are we calming and cleansing our minds, but we are also purifying and restoring balance.

Practicing Mindfulness Meditation

Some benefits of meditation (an excellent example of a mindful practice):

● increased capacity for empathy and compassion; decreased capacity for envy and competition

● enhanced REM sleep

● boost melatonin levels (happiness levels rise)

● deeper self-awareness

● better focus

● less tendency to burn out

● less tendency to stress out

Try to meditate 10-20 minutes per day. Slowly build it up.

 4. Action

Mahatma Gandhi once said “Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony”.

We all need internal and external success. By having both, we can build a meaningful life for ourselves and have the most impact on others.

If we only have external success (money, fame, power, etc.) and this becomes volatile, then internally, our state becomes volatile too. But if we are internally satisfied and successful, then it will project outwards.

My main takeaway(s):

You really have to be aware of who you are, what you stand for and apply it to life (whether personal or professional) in order for you to know how to serve a higher purpose. And this must be reiterated, this must be a constant self-reminder.

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What is Emotional Intelligence

What is Emotional Intelligence

Why is learning and having emotional intelligence (EQ) important?

Emotional Intelligence Overview

The world has always connected, continues to connect and will forever connect through people-to-people interaction, not business-to-business communication. “With places and projects, I have a strategy. When it comes to people, I go with my heart”.

Especially with the recent rise in technology, the most needed skill of the hour and of the future to achieve success, whether in personal or professional life is EQ. You get to connect with people offline and online through EQ. “Whether offline or online, people think in exactly the same way. Online, however, people’s habits are simply amplified and magnified”.

With EQ, one has the ability to:

●     connect with people

●     understand one’s own and another’s emotions in the context of the current surrounding and environment

●     understand what someone else is going through physical and visual cues without them even having to say it

●     go with one’s own heart

●     negotiate, persuade, motivate, inspire

●     build a deep relationship with others

“The healthiest, wealthiest and wisest people on earth quote that EQ is a key matrix of growing success” because ultimately, you are dealing with people. You need to feel them. “We are more than numbers and figures.”

How do I improve my EQ?

First, a must-do exercise for yourself.

Take note that we are a bit of both but we naturally prefer to be more of one over the other. Also take note that for each question, NEITHER are weaknesses; they are both STRENGTHS. Now, ask yourself…

Question 1) Am I a more outgoing person or am I a more reserved person? (Choose only 1)

1. A more outgoing person will prefer:                                 

●     directing a conversation

getting people to do things

1. A more reserved person will rather:

be part of the conversation

Question 2) Am I a more task-oriented person or am I a more people-oriented person? (Choose only 1)

1. A more task-oriented person will think:

●     what comes next?

●     about the order of things to do

●     what do I need to get done today?

 A more task-oriented person is a natural planner

1. A more people-oriented person will think:

●     are people enjoying their time?

●     how are others feeling?

●     who am I meeting today?

A more people-oriented person is a natural motivator.
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DISC profiling

DISC profile an Overview

I am a more task-oriented person

I am a more outgoing person

D: more outgoing and more task-oriented

The Ds prefer to:

●     direct

●     do

●     plan

●     organize

●     “ready, fire, aim!”

●     be motivated by action

●     be orientated by results

see the bigger picture

I am a more outgoing person

I am a more people-oriented person

I: more outgoing and more people-oriented

The Is prefer to:

●     inspire

●     innovate

●     motivate

●     intellectualize

●     discuss

●     “ready, talk!”

●     have space to create

provide insights

I am a more reserved person

I am a more task-oriented person

C: more reserved and task-oriented

The Cs prefer to:

●     be calculative

●     be cautious

●     be detailed

●     have to focus

●     have steps

have a process

I am a more reserved person

I am a more people-oriented person

S: more reserved and more people-oriented

The Ss prefer to:

●     be soft

●     be structured

●     emphatise

●     be the middle-man / mediators

●     “ready, hug!”

·         bring people into the situation

Understanding others’ DISC profiles

How we should treat others is not by how we like to be treated but rather how they need to be treated. Nobody is good or bad, we see things through different lenses, through different perspectives. All of us are just wired emotionally in different ways.

An example: Six blind men were at the backstage of a circus. As they were feeling their way around, all of them touched an elephant. Turn by turn, they said “It’s more like a tree trunk”, “It’s more like a rope”, “It’s more like a palm leaf”, “It’s more like a bending tree trunk”, “It’s more like a wall”. All were right. They just had different perspectives.

When people interact with us, they are showing you:

●     their DISC profile

●     their needs, dreams, and worries

Both parties, therefore, need to listen, see and read between the lines.

There are natural collaborators between some profiles but it’s all about work! To communicate effectively and deeply, we need to speak to others not in the language we understand but in the language that they understand. It’s as if traveling to a foreign country: in order for the locals to understand and connect with you, you need to speak in their native tongue. This will enable you to make the most impact.

Interacting with the Ds

Provide them:

●     the direction in which things are going

the bigger picture / how things fit into the bigger picture

Interacting with the Is

Provide them:

time and space to create

Interacting with the Ss

Provide them:

●     details

with information on the steps, of the process

Interacting with the Cs

Provide them:

with information on how people are going to benefit, participate, be affected by the situation

The challenge for today: try to notice any be aware of others’ DISC profiles and try to communicate with them in their own language.

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How to be an Early Riser Powerful Success Habit

SUCCESS HABITS

How to be an Early Riser Powerful Success Habit

THE EARLY RISER

Some things to note before starting: often, you may think “I already know this!” When you say this, you are setting yourself up for destruction. There is a difference between knowing and learning. There is a difference between knowing and doing.

An early riser is someone who not only wakes up early but also someone who wakes up feeling energised, empowered, enthusiastic, enlivened, enlightened and focused.

Some facts:

●     90% of successful executives in the world wake up before 6 am everyday

●     50% of self-made millionaires wake up 3 hour before work everyday

Highly Sucessful Billionaires

 The EARLY riser (focus on 1 first then the next and so on)

E - Evening routine

 Your evening routine is as important as your morning routine.

The evening routine of the enlightened:

●     Stow away your phone at least 1 hour before your sleep time***

●     Have a pair of specific clothes you go to sleep to — your body has memory and your clothes have energy

●     To complete before bedtime: Reminders and Affirmations

●     Eat at least 2 hour before bedtime

The morning routine of the enlightened:

●     Only use phone 1 hour after your wake up time

●     Meditate

●     Eat a breakfast that will provide enough energy to last you through to lunch

●     Review (in terms of priority) and start tackling the to-do list you made from the night before

●     Drink loads of water during the day (at least 2 Liter) — enough water gives you energy

A - Affirmations

Affirmations are powerful statements that empower you. They are like seeds you plant in your head which start growing when you sleep.

Write at least 3 down before you go to sleep and that way, when you wake up the next day, your affirmations start to kick in.

An example: “I will wake up feeling focussed and energised!”

R - Reminders

Also known as your to-do list.

At the top, write down your top priority — something that makes you feel EXCITED!

L - Lead-up time to bedtime

●     Journal your pains / what to let go of (3 things) and what you are grateful for (3 things)

●     Switch off device

●     Environment of room should be as dark as the inside of a cave

Drink loads of water

Y - Your right amount of sleep and your “Y”

Know how much time you need to get a full rest.

Write down why you want to wake up earlier. The more motivated you are by your “why”, the more likely you are to stick to it.

How to wake up early:

●     Do it gradually — do not shock your system (when someone shocks you, you react)

●     Go to bed and wake up 10 - 15 min earlier for a week then repeat

Habits are adopted by making small changes our TOP PRIORITY.

My main takeaway(s):

1. Being an early riser is more of waking up early feeling empowered, enlightened, energized and less about waking up early. Both are important but it’s more important to wake up feeling empowered, enlightened and energized.
2. You need to know WHY you are adopting any habit in your life in order to keep with it.

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