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REASONS WHY WOMAN GET ATTACHED TO A MAN AFTER SEX

“ REASONS WHY WOMAN GET ATTACHED TO A MAN AFTER SEX.”

1. Women naively believe what they hear.

The way to a woman is through her ears. For a man to sleep with a woman, he says what the woman wants to hear:

“You are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met. You are so smart, focused, and intelligent.”

This way, she doesn’t feel like he’s taking her for a fool. And whoops, she falls into his trap!

2. Women believe in love.

Outside marriage, men are just cheaters (irresponsible men). For men, there’s no love gained or lost. After sex, a man walks away with zero feelings. The game is over. She’s left confused and wounded. Women don’t easily slow down after intimacy.

3. Women are more emotional by nature.

The woman’s body releases volumes of oxytocin during intimacy. This is the hormone responsible for bonding. She naturally gets emotionally attached to the man she slept with. And the more time he takes with her, the more attached she becomes.

4. Women are nurturers by nature.

Women unconsciously nurture relationships the same way they nurture babies. Women foster and nourish whatever comes their way including grownup men.

5. Sex for women is an act of submission.

When a woman sleeps with a man, she totally trusts him. In sex, a woman surrenders her life, will, and body to the man to do with her as he wishes. That’s why women get broken to pieces when relationships break down.

Remember: Pre-marital sex is rampant anywhere especially in the younger generation, Sex is a part of their exploration of happiness with the opposite sex. Many single mothers experience sex without Love. Then later on they will realize the bad effects and result of being pregnant. I hope and pray to all our young generation to make Sex as a Sacred Act of Marriage. And not in a way of amusement.

A lack of serotonin in the body

*A lack of serotonin in the body*

can lead to several disadvantages and health issues, primarily affecting mood, mental health, and bodily functions. Here are some key disadvantages:

1. **Depression**: Low levels of serotonin are closely linked to depression. Serotonin helps regulate mood, and insufficient levels can lead to feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and general disinterest in life.

2. **Anxiety**: Serotonin imbalance is also associated with anxiety disorders. Low serotonin levels can cause increased feelings of fear, worry, and tension.

3. **Sleep Disorders**: Serotonin is a precursor to melatonin, the hormone responsible for regulating sleep-wake cycles. A deficiency can lead to insomnia and other sleep disturbances.

4. **Digestive Issues**: Serotonin is also found in the gastrointestinal tract, where it helps regulate bowel movements and function. Low levels can result in digestive problems like irritable bowel syndrome (IBS).

5. **Cognitive Impairments**: Serotonin influences cognitive functions, including memory and learning. Low levels can impair these functions, leading to difficulties in concentrating and memory retention.

6. **Fatigue**: Insufficient serotonin can lead to chronic fatigue, making individuals feel tired and lethargic even after adequate rest.

7. **Poor Appetite Control**: Serotonin helps regulate appetite. Low levels can cause changes in eating behavior, leading to overeating or loss of appetite.

8. **Chronic Pain**: Serotonin is involved in the perception of pain. Low levels can increase sensitivity to pain, contributing to chronic pain conditions.

9. **Hormonal Imbalances**: Serotonin affects the regulation of other hormones in the body. A deficiency can disrupt this balance, leading to various health issues.

Addressing serotonin deficiency typically involves lifestyle changes, therapy, and, in some cases, medication to help regulate serotonin levels and alleviate symptoms.

WHAT TURNS A WOMAN ON

WHAT TURNS A WOMAN ON:

1. LOVE

The strongest aphrodisiac is love. When a woman loves a man her sexuality is let loose, just thinking about or being near him can easily turn her on

2. FAITHFULNESS

As long as a woman knows that her man isn't making sexual advances or flirting with any other woman she will fall for his suggestive advances. Women don't like to share

3. REALNESS

A man who speaks his mind turns her on. When he can unapologetically tell her when he is aroused, tell her his fantansies, be honest and raw about his hunger for her

4. RESPECT

A woman loves being respected. She will let her man go a long way with her if he respects her. Don't insult her like a foolish girl then expect her to let you touch her like a woman

5. A MAN WHO IS AFTER HER AS A PERSON

It is a turn off if all the man is after is having sex with her. She is a person with a mind, spirit, heart, dreams; she wants the man to be interested in her as a person not a sex object

6. AN INTELLIGENT MIND

A man who talks deep stuff turns a woman on, she loves it when he has a good head over his shoulders. Wow her with your mind and she will find you sexy

7. INTIMATE CONVERSATIONS

Women love being aroused progressively. An engaging intimate conversation opens up the door to her sexuality. She loves being slowly unwrapped with sweet affectionate words. She uses those words to confirm to her if the man's motive is right

8. THE RIGHT TOUCH

Women are touchy, they respond to touch. When a man knows where to touch and how to touch, she will get hot

9. POWERFUL EYES

Women study the man's eye contact, it tells her how hungry he is for her. Sometimes fire in his eyes is enough to get her in the mood

10. FIRM VOICE

Whether the man has a deep voice or a really deep voice, she loves a man who speaks with muscles in his voice

11. CLEANLINESS

Cleanliness is part of sexiness

12. CONFIDENCE

A man with a good dose of ego is a turn on, he is comfortable in his own skin and comes to her charging

13. PURSUIT

She loves being chased. She wants him to be a man who knows what he wants and what to do. He takes the lead

14. GENTLE ROUGHNESS

She loves masculinity, just the right amount of roughness. He doesn't hurt her, he takes care of each part of her body but he also has passion and a wild spark

15. THE RIGHT SUGGESTIVE WORDS

Know your woman, each woman is different. Some love being talked dirty to, others love decency. Say words that call out her sexiness, not those that make her uncomfortable

16. MYSTERY

She loves it when he is creative. He plans different scripts, scenes and set ups when advancing on her. He isn't boring doing the same thing over and over. She loves adventure

17. A GIVER

When the man is eager to please her, not only thinking of himself, she loves it. She loves it when he is keen on her needs not just his. He pays attention to her body and wants to satisfy her

18. A MAN WHO TREATS HER HEART RIGHT

A woman's sexuality is tied to her heart. If her man keeps treating her wrong and her heart is hurting because of him, she can't get to be turned on.

The Art of Being ALONE: Solitude Is My HOME, Loneliness Was My Cage

1. Embrace Solitude: Gavrani emphasizes that solitude is not something to be feared but cherished. It allows for self-reflection and growth, providing a sanctuary from the constant noise of the world.

2. Distinguish Between Loneliness and Solitude: Understanding the difference between loneliness and solitude is crucial. Loneliness is a state of mind marked by feelings of emptiness and isolation, whereas solitude is a chosen state of being alone that can be enriching and fulfilling.

3. Self-Discovery Through Solitude: Spending time alone can lead to profound self-discovery. Gavrani suggests that solitude allows individuals to explore their true selves without external influences, leading to greater self-awareness and understanding.

4. Cultivate Inner Peace: Solitude offers an opportunity to find inner peace. By stepping away from the chaos and distractions of daily life, one can connect with their inner thoughts and emotions, fostering a sense of tranquility.

5. Creative Inspiration: Many creative breakthroughs occur in solitude. Gavrani points out that being alone can ignite creativity, as it provides the mental space needed to think deeply and imagine new possibilities.

6. Emotional Resilience: Developing the ability to be comfortable in solitude can enhance emotional resilience. It teaches individuals to rely on themselves for comfort and support, rather than seeking validation from others.

7. Mindfulness and Presence: Solitude encourages mindfulness and being present in the moment. Without the constant barrage of external stimuli, one can focus on the here and now, leading to a more centered and grounded existence.

8. Strengthen Relationships: Gavrani explains that time spent in solitude can improve relationships. When individuals are content and fulfilled on their own, they bring a healthier and more balanced presence to their interactions with others.

9. Personal Empowerment: Solitude can be empowering. It reinforces the idea that one does not need to depend on others for happiness or fulfillment, leading to a greater sense of independence and self-sufficiency.

10. Developing a Solitude Practice: The book offers practical advice on how to incorporate solitude into daily life. This includes setting aside regular time for being alone, creating a personal space for solitude, and embracing activities that promote introspection and self-care.

Useful “Financial” Tips

1. Avoid buying property on loans unless you have a clear plan for its repayment. Monitor cash flow

2. Start a SIP at a very young age

3. Avoid buying a car unless you use it everyday

4. Do not let this sentence scare you. Mutual fund investments are subject to market risk. Look at the history and growth of Mutual Funds

5. Try having a simple wedding

6. Atleast 20% of your wealth should be liquid so you can utilize it when necessary

7. Considering inflation, do not keep huge money in savings bank account

8. If you invest in stocks, pay due attention

9. Do not have a belief that property & car make you rich

10. Never invest in insurance for returns

11. Use credit card for needs not for wants

12. Cancel all credit cards before you die, or inform family. Even a small residue will cost your family much

13. Invest on yourself & then on other investments

14. Balance your earnings with your savings first, then on spending and loans. Never take unnecessary loans

15. Always have a plan for future events on your career, life, spending and finance

16. Always have a reserve on your savings for contingency and urgent situations

17. Investment like, have a regular health check & do healthy workout every day

18. Do buy adequate term Insurance if you have dependents

19. Don't keep everything for children, Live for your life wishes, leave the rest

20. Prepare a Will

21. IF YOU HAVE TOO MUCH MONEY, GIVE IT TO YOUR FRIENDS. THEY WILL RETURN WITH INTEREST IN NEXT LIFE.

women you should never date

Men, 6 women you should never date.

1. The materialistic, high maintainance woman who wants you to maintain her expensive lifestyle. She's always buying stupid things you cannot afford. Avoid her.

2. The party crawler, who moves from club to club dancing away her life. She's not a serious person. Avoid her.

3. The angry woman whose emotions are out of control. She gets angry even in public and throws a tantrum like a spoilt, entitled child. Avoid her.

4. The sex fiend, who thinks of only seggs and who thinks seggs will solve all your problems and brings you no value. Avoid her.

5. The arrogant, condescending woman, who thinks she's better than you and doing you a favour by being with you. Avoid her.

6. The social butterfly who is surrounded by many men whom she calls her friends. Those men are your replacement. Avoid her.

7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX

(Its a bit long but Educative, take you time to read)

I want to change some ladies mindset today. (sorry I will be very raw with these).

You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are mad. They are not all sex maniacs that once they see you, they descend on you and finish up before you could open your mouth and say no. Not all the men on the street wants to get into your pants.

I'm going to be real and down to earth with this article. The way some ladies complain that men are always asking them for sex really baffles me. Why sex, why not marriage proposal? Why do men always want to sleep with you? Why is it that every single guy who asks you out is always hitting you for sex? Why won't they marry you unless they have a taste of the forbidden fruit? What is the problem because this is a big problem! It is not something to be proud of, if all what men see about you is your body and nothing more. It is a cause for alarm!

let me take time to analyze it on a beat.

1. CHECK YOUR DRESSING

A female's body means nothing to her. You are used to seeing your breasts and every soft body part all your life. It doesn't mean a thing to you but to guys it means the universe!

Men are moved by sight. Wearing armless (exposing your shaved armpit and upper arm) can turn a man on talk less of the low neckline exposing the cleavage of your breasts. Tight trousers, tights (panty hose) which shows the shape of your buttock, mini and micromini skirts exposing your thigh all can make a man go wild! Better face reality now and mind the way you dress.

Some ladies say it doesn't matter. Men should be able to control themselves. They are entitled to what they wear. Then you should be able to control yourself when they start asking you for sex and not come here lamenting all men are dogs!

I saw a lady around a street sometime ago and I whistled. Jesus Christ! The gown (not really a gown, the top was sown together with the trouser, it was suppose to be a gown but the one down is a trouser) clung to her body like her second skin and right through the window of the car, I was literally, looking at the shape of her buttock! It was like she wore nothing! She thought she looked so beautiful but well, she looked so seductive! If she was going to visit a male friend , it will take the power of the Most High God and the special anointing of the Holy Ghost for that guy not to sleep with her or asked her for sex.that is if a mad man didn't rape her before she gets to her destination! It was that baaad!!!

2. LEARN HOW TO SIT

Some ladies don't know how to sit. Especially the skirt wearing sisters. You sit in front of a guy and open your laps, what do you want him to see? A trance? Yeah, he saw alot of it! Always close your thigh when you are sitting whether in front of a guy or not. Not sitting very well can become a habit and follow you around. And you wonder why all the brothers in the church wants to sleep with you!

I was on a bike one day and saw a fully grown, mature lady sitting in front of her shop with her thigh thrown apart. She wore a short gown exactly like the lady in this picture and was sitting facing the express road! The whole world had a complete assess to her holy of holies, may the Lord have mercy! If men start asking her for sex, she will tell us she doesn't know why men are disturbing her.

3. YOU TOUCH MEN A LOT

Ladies who touch, hug and wrap themselves around guys are sexual magnets to sexually immature guys. Why are you always hugging and pecking, for what? Can't you talk without touching, holding and hugging someone? Some even sit on their "friend's" lap and say it doesn't matter. He is just a brother in Christ. He would soon be a lover in bed. Learn to control your emotions around the opposite sex. If you must hug, go look for your fellow lady to hug and peck and you still need to be careful. Lesbians are all over the places!

4. CALLING MEN PET NAMES

I hate it when women call me sweetheart- I'm not your sweetheart! I am sweetheart to only babe or my Wife. Some people just throw around the word babe" as if it is a second language! Why would you give all the guys in your life pet names? You say, "thanks honey," "okay sweetie", "see you dearie", "bye love", etc.,you are looking for serious trouble. Words like this turns a man on..

5. YOU SEDUCE MEN

Here, you deliberately wear provocative dresses with the intention to turn him on. You want to see whether you are sexually admirable to him and want to see how far he can respond to your seduction. You don't need that test at all. Men are turned on by women whether you seduce him or not. A woman's body is built to turn a man on.

6. YOU POST SEDUCTIVE PICTURES ON THE SOCIAL MEDIA

When I see the way some ladies pose on facebook, I wonder what they are really looking for. Why pouting? Do you want him to kiss you? Why turn your buttick to the camera? Do you want him to see how big it is? Why focus on your chest? Do you want him to know you have firm breasts? What is the purpose of the pictures you are posting?

7. YOU EXPECT MEN TO ASK FOR SEX

Some ladies think because they are exceptionally beautiful, men will always ask for sex so it's not really their fault that they sleep around.That is a big lie from the pit of hell!

One of My mentor is an exceptionally beautiful woman with large hips. You can easily pick her out from a crowd because of her hips. She uses no makeup and jewelry yet she has a stunning face that makes any man look twice yet she married as a virgin. In fact, ...

You need to work on your mind. Thinking all men will die for you because you have a hot body is crap! Not all men lose their senses when they see a woman with seductive body. All irresponsible, immature, abusers and users do get attracted to her anyway. Mature, godly men don't get their brain twisted on sporting that type of woman.

Remember: Alright, here are the seven (7) possible reasons men may be sleeping with you or always asking you for sex each time I come across one.

I know you are sick and tired of being used and dumped. If you really desire to get married and marry right, I mean you want to attract a godly man and gloriously settle down to a beautiful marriage, you will need to work on your mindset and change your attitude towards men.Watch what you wear, how you sit, where you go and the way you behave around men. A virtous lady dresses well to cover her body and comports herself maturely around men. You will be addressed the way you dress. If they are always asking you for sex. Check what is wrong and fix it. I repeat check what is wrong and fix it...God bless us all

Men how is the volume 😂

# Remember Love is Natural ❣️

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